One of My Biggest Fears

I'm not really sure when this fear cropped up, but it's been prevalent for quite a few years now and probably pre-dates Mr. Intellectual. I'm afraid that after I get married I will end up being the breadwinner of the family. That I will be the one responsible for providing everything. It wouldn't bother me if I made more money than my spouse, as long as he's contributing something and doesn't expect me to finance everything. I would rather be single forever than end up with a deadbeat who can't pull his weight.